Thanks, @Elyse Cizek, Great article here.
For those of us who know we need to be having those tough conversations but don't know how to go about it or where to begin, here's a great resource:
https://www.whiteallytoolkit.com/
I'm taking Dr. Campt's course right now and it's just what the doctor ordered. When going into these conversations, it's very important that we have the right skills. Spouting facts and figures and telling people that they're wrong doesn't help. We've been doing that for a while now, and if that did any good, we'd be seeing progress by now. Instead, we see our cousins cos-playing sedition with real weapons.
So what does help? Check it out...
The above linked article is just an intro. There are certain skills we need to develop if we are to do any good at this work. Check it out ...