"Really out there"? Easily said if you're a male. Females are 5x more likelly to be sexually abused than males.

"You protest too much"? Now you're accusing me? After I shared my experiences?

"Slyly accusing me of having ulterior motives"?

I didn't say that. I said "it sounds to me like..." That is, that's how I, as a survivor, hear it. And there are many survivors who would hear it the same way. If you often make posts differentiating the degrees of anomal chronophilia in response to survivor stories you have probably experienced pushback like this before.

I agree, words matter. Also context matters. If you want to write an article educating the public about the different degrees of atypical chronophilia, please do so. However, jumping in on someone else's survivor story to correct their vocabulary is just crass. Especially someone who is a member of a marginalized community. Someone who has to put up with tone policing and worse all. the. time.