No. Asking strangers to stay out of family conversations isn't the same as denying access to public accommodations. There's no discrimination or excluding or judging here, just a clear and healthy setting of boundaries.

As long as we got a system that makes it all about skin color, we gotta think about skin color and how it affects whether people get to survive or thrive, live or die.

That's the problem. And anyone who is ok with it, they are the problem.